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Log inHow should I handle my teen receiving bad grades?
Last updated on June 3, 2026
Handling a teen's bad grades can be challenging, but there are ways to approach the situation constructively. Start with a calm conversation to understand the root cause, whether it's a lack of understanding, motivation, or external pressures. Avoid harsh punishments, which can add stress. Instead, offer support by creating a realistic plan that prioritizes the biggest academic needs and considers any external commitments your teen may have.
Lisa also suggests considering if mental health issues or subtle learning disorders are at play. If so, reach out to school counselors or a family doctor for assessment. Remember, the goal is to support your teen in overcoming challenges, not just to improve grades.
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The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.
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