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April 24, 2013

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Q: I don’t like my 15-year-old daughter’s boyfriend. Until now, we’ve had a good relationship with her. But her very first boyfriend is worrisome. He has videos on Facebook of him getting drunk and stoned. And last year, he broke into our house while we were on vacation. I really don’t like him.
I did forbid her from seeing him and told her he’s not allowed at our house. My daughter says he has changed and she really likes him. Either way, I just cannot allow this boy into my home. But now my daughter is telling lies and sneaking around just to see him. HELP!!!!!

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The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.