The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

Lisa's latest New York Times best seller is an urgently needed guide to help parents understand their teenagers’ intense and often fraught emotional lives—and how to support them through this critical developmental stage.

Under Pressure

Under Pressure

Lisa’s second New York Times best seller is a celebrated guide to addressing the alarming increase in anxiety and stress in girls from elementary school through college.

Untangled

Untangled

Lisa’s award-winning New York Times best seller–now available in nineteen languages–is a sane, informed, and engaging guide for parents of teenage girls.

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Untangling 10 to 20 is a dynamic library of premium content designed to support anyone who is raising, working with, or caring for tweens and teens.

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Get unlimited access to just-in-time advice and research-backed guidance for parents, caregivers, educators, and teens. Our premium content is searchable by topic and includes: 

  • An constantly expanding library of Dr. Damour’s short Dear Teenagers videos in which she talks directly to adolescents about the common challenges they face. Dear Teenagers videos can be shown to teens, watched with teens, or used for guidance on how to talk with teens about a range topics.
  • An ever-growing collection of Untangling Family Life videos featuring Dr. Damour’s most requested talks for parents, caregivers, and educators – new videos are added monthly!
  • Access to Knot to Worry – Dr. Damour’s articles about raising tweens and teens.
  • A subscription to Dr. Damour’s weekly newsletter and invitations to live virtual events.

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For all questions regarding membership, billing, and how to best navigate Untangling 10to20 content e-mail [email protected].

Yes! You can purchase either plan for someone else. The option to purchase as a gift and send directly to someone else’s email is available in checkout. Simply click the box that says, “Is this a gift?” on the sign-up page and you will be prompted to add the recipient’s email address and a short message.

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Absolutely. Dr. Damour offers a just-for-schools version of the membership, Untangling 10to20 for Schools, which allows administrators and educators to effectively utilize and share the premium content. Visit this page for more details.

The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.