The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

Lisa's latest New York Times best seller is an urgently needed guide to help parents understand their teenagers’ intense and often fraught emotional lives—and how to support them through this critical developmental stage.

Under Pressure

Under Pressure

Lisa’s second New York Times best seller is a celebrated guide to addressing the alarming increase in anxiety and stress in girls from elementary school through college.

Untangled

Untangled

Lisa’s award-winning New York Times best seller–now available in nineteen languages–is a sane, informed, and engaging guide for parents of teenage girls. Now, because of its enduring popularity, Untangled is available in a revised and updated edition that supplements the timeless guidance at the heart of the original with fresh consideration of—and help for—challenges that have emerged recently for teens.

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Untangling 10to20 is a dynamic library of premium content designed to support anyone who is raising, working with, or caring for tweens and teens.

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Get unlimited access to just-in-time advice and research-backed guidance for parents, caregivers, educators, and teens. Our premium content is searchable by topic and includes: 

Dear Teenagers videos

These are short (2-3 minute) videos in which Dr. Damour speaks directly to teens on topics highly relevant to their lives.

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The Difference Between ‘Popular’ and ‘Powerful

How to Manage Transitions Well

Untangling Family Life videos

These are Dr. Damour’s extended presentations (ranging from 15-40 minutes) on the topics that caregivers and educators care about most.

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Risky Business: What Adults Can Do to Keep Teens Safe

Knot to Worry articles

These to-the-point pieces address issues central to raising tweens and teens and give parents and educators a way to understand the expectable challenges that come with typical development.

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Getting Teens to Talk

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The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.