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February 1, 2024

Knot to Worry

Raising 10to20s: When to Worry

Adolescence, by its nature, comes with potent emotions. But knowing this doesn’t mean that it’s easy to take our 10to20s’ intense feelings in stride – especially when we’re surrounded by headlines about the on-going adolescent mental health crisis.

So how can those of us raising 10to20s know when it’s time to worry? Answering these key questions will help you know if you’re looking at a garden-variety meltdown or if it’s time to seek outside help.

The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.