The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

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October 7, 2020

New York Times

Book Review: ‘Tomboy’ Looks at Gender Roles, and Role-Playing, Through the Ages

In “Tomboy,” the author Lisa Selin Davis leverages a familiar term to take a comprehensive look at gender performance in girls. As for who counts as a tomboy, Davis includes anyone who is seen (or who sees herself) as moving off the narrow path of conventional femininity. Under Davis’s big umbrella we find girls who reject dolls, dresses and sparkles in favor of athletics, sportswear and dirt; those who embrace both the stereotypically girlish and boyish; and some for whom tomboyism is an early expression of what will evolve into a lesbian, trans or gender-nonconforming identity.

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The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.