Through articles, podcasts, book excerpts, and downloadable bookmarks, my goal is to share practical advice and research-backed guidance that addresses the big and small challenges that come with family life.
And if you’re in search of more timely resources, Untangling 10 to 20 is my new digital subscription offering a dynamic library of video content and articles for parents, caregivers, and teens.
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Lisa's latest New York Times best seller is an urgently needed guide to help parents understand their teenagers’ intense and often fraught emotional lives—and how to support them through this critical developmental stage.
Lisa’s second New York Times best seller is a celebrated guide to addressing the alarming increase in anxiety and stress in girls from elementary school through college.
Lisa’s award-winning New York Times best seller–now available in nineteen languages–is a sane, informed, and engaging guide for parents of teenage girls.
Untangling 10 to 20 is a dynamic library of premium content designed to support anyone who is raising, working with, or caring for tweens and teens.
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Knot to Worry
One of the hardest – and most common – realities of raising a 10to20 is that they tend to clam up. Somewhere around age ten or eleven, many previously chatty kids suddenly adopt a sphinx-like silence. As one-word answers replace detailed accounts of the day, parents can worry about what they’re missing, long for the closeness they enjoyed with their pre-adolescent child, and even feel personally rejected.
The advice provided by Dr. Damour here will not and does not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.
My new book is now available!
The Emotional Lives of Teenagers
Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents
