Kids use the term “popular” to describe two very different kinds of peers. Sometimes, it refers to highly charismatic classmates who are a pleasure to be around. Other times, it’s used to describe peers who have—and sometimes misuse—a great deal of social power. In this Dear Teenagers video, Dr. Lisa Damour unpacks this important distinction and offers guidance on how teens can make thoughtful choices about the friendships they pursue. You can share the video with your 10to20, watch it together, or use it to start a conversation about social dynamics among tweens and teens.
For more on talking to teens about peer relationships, parents and caregivers can check out this Untangling Family Life video.
More resources
