The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers

Lisa's latest New York Times best seller is an urgently needed guide to help parents understand their teenagers’ intense and often fraught emotional lives—and how to support them through this critical developmental stage.

Under Pressure

Under Pressure

Lisa’s second New York Times best seller is a celebrated guide to addressing the alarming increase in anxiety and stress in girls from elementary school through college.

Untangled

Untangled

Lisa’s award-winning New York Times best seller–now available in nineteen languages–is a sane, informed, and engaging guide for parents of teenage girls. Now, because of its enduring popularity, Untangled is available in a revised and updated edition that supplements the timeless guidance at the heart of the original with fresh consideration of—and help for—challenges that have emerged recently for teens.

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Untangling 10to20 is a dynamic library of premium content designed to support anyone who is raising, working with, or caring for tweens and teens.

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Interested in using Dr. Damour’s premium content in classrooms, counseling, for professional development and parent education?

An annual subscription allows learning institutions (and non-profits) access to a constantly expanding collection of premium content that includes:

Dear Teenagers videos

These are short (2-3 minute) videos in which Dr. Damour speaks directly to teens on topics highly relevant to their lives.

Check out the following samples:

The Difference Between ‘Popular’ and ‘Powerful

What You Need to Know About Pornography

Understanding Grief

Untangling Family Life videos

These are Dr. Damour’s extended presentations (ranging from 15-40 minutes) on the topics that caregivers and educators care about most.

Check out the following samples:

Risky Business: What Adults Can Do to Keep Teens Safe

A Pragmatic Approach to Social Media

How (and Why) to Be a Steady Presence

Knot to Worry articles

These to-the-point pieces address issues central to raising tweens and teens and give parents and educators a way to understand the expectable challenges that come with typical development.

Check out the following samples:

Getting Teens to Talk

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Helping 10to20s Manage Test Taking Anxiety

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Tier 1:
Full Community Sharing Rights

$4,500/year license

  • Rights to share all Untangling 10to20 content in classrooms, at parent events, and in professional development programs.
  • Permission to post up to 10 videos or articles on your school’s password-protected portal for anytime access by students, educators, and parents.
  • A school code giving families 25% off a personal subscription to Untangling 10to20, which includes full access and bookmarking tools.
  • Ten one-year Untangling 10to20 personal subscriptions (value $1,920) for use by administrators, counselors, faculty, or staff.
  • Access to the Untangling 10to20 in Schools Handbook, offering content descriptions and use-case scenarios for educators.

Tier 2:
Limited, In-School Sharing Rights

$1,700/year license

  • Rights to share all Untangling 10to20 content within school settings only—including classrooms, advisory, counseling, and professional development sessions.
  • Access to the Untangling 10to20 in Schools Handbook.
  • A unique school code that gives families 25% off a personal subscription to Untangling 10to20, which includes full content access and bookmarking features.

Interested in learning more? Contact Michelle Levi Noe.

The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.