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September 4, 2025

Dear Teenagers

Dealing with Procrastination

Everyone puts things off sometimes—but procrastination can feel especially tricky for teens and tweens. Often, students don’t get to choose the projects or topics they’re assigned, which can make it even harder to get started. In this Dear Teenagers video, Dr. Lisa Damour unpacks the difference between helpful and harmful procrastination, and shares strategies for staying on track while keeping anxiety at bay.

You can share this Dear Teenagers video with your teen, watch it together, or use it as a guide for discussing their workload. Check out this Knot to Worry article for how adults can support teens who procrastinate.

The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.

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