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February 6, 2024

Dear Teenagers

How to Get Adults to Stop Nagging

Teenagers can feel that adults are on their backs, while adults can feel that teenagers need regular reminders to help them stay on track. In this three-minute video, Dr. Lisa Damour (herself a mother of two teenagers) shares with 10to20s how to thoughtfully give “nagging” parents the information they need so that they can give their teen the desired space. You can show this Dear Teenagers video to your teen, watch it together, or use it for guidance on talking with teens about how to curtail “nagging.” For more, adults can watch the Untangling Family Life on “Getting 10to20s to Open Up” here.

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The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.