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Dear Teenagers
Have you ever noticed that your best ideas often come to you in the shower? In this Dear Teenagers video, Dr. Lisa Damour explains the value of protecting time for “soft fascination”—the term psychologists use for what happens when we allow our minds to wander.
You can share this Dear Teenagers video with your teen, watch it together, or use as a guide for talking about the benefits of mental downtime.
The advice provided here by Dr. Damour and the resources shared by her AI-powered librarian, Rosalie, will not and do not constitute - or serve as a substitute for - professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well-being, consult a physician or mental health professional.
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